Escaping Narcissistic Abuse
Admitting You Made a Habit Out of Pleasing a Narcissistic Family & Remembering the Infinity of Solution
Give unto others as you would have others give unto you.
Beyond the obvious statement, trending words for the times, eh? As forced empathy congratulates the weakened boundaries of a people, individuals often give up more than their allotted time by seeking relationships which validate the often omissible-emotional needs to belong, to feel loved and wanted without true reciprocity.
People pleasing and self-sacrifice to win over the love of others is developmental. Cultural and family conditioning give us the template to return to outdated modes of relating, and for one reason or another, some of us are willed to comply.
On the other side is someone or thing waiting to weaponize your language of love for their own reasons, mainly through inverted family constellations. Attraction of opposites is natural law and consists of alternative currents of pain body medicine which ignite the core woundings of both individuals. The comfort and biochemical addiction associated with this type of dysfunctional pattern is later explosive and enraged by certain outcomes which typically end in war and absolute devastation to the heart.
Fear of not knowing what could possibly happen when I released my inner identity survival wounding to start opening up to my organic, natural state of being was gatekeeping my life. That force alone, which allows the energy in all systems to move, is siphoned from the real freedom…